Naturally we think that ‘finding meaning’ would be a good next step in this self exploration. However, instead of looking into your own meaning by directly seeking it out, I want you to look at the people and items around you to determine the meaning…

Part 3: Eroticism And now for the section that tends to be the most controversial; eroticism. When we define eroticism in a relationship we are talking about sexual charge and energy. Eroticism is not detached from an emotional relationship, but rather complements and heightens vigor…

Part 2: Pleasure Pleasure is defined as happy satisfaction and enjoyment. Pleasure within the context of sexuality includes sensual and playful touch, not just intercourse. Creating pleasure as a couple creates closeness, intimacy, and warmth. You both must be able to experience pleasurable touch in…

Part 1: Desire Desire is defined as a strong feeling of wanting or wishing that something would happen. Desire is very much energized by anticipation of positive interactions and excitement. Freedom of choice is a must and you need to take care of yourself before…