Part 3: Eroticism And now for the section that tends to be the most controversial; eroticism. When we define eroticism in a relationship we are talking about sexual charge and energy. Eroticism is not detached from an emotional relationship, but rather complements and heightens vigor within the sexual connection. Sexual…
Sex Life Makeover: Part 2: Pleasure
Part 2: Pleasure Pleasure is defined as happy satisfaction and enjoyment. Pleasure within the context of sexuality includes sensual and playful touch, not just intercourse. Creating pleasure as a couple creates closeness, intimacy, and warmth. You both must be able to experience pleasurable touch in a comfortable, kind, and trusting…
Sex Life Makeover: Part 1: Desire
Part 1: Desire Desire is defined as a strong feeling of wanting or wishing that something would happen. Desire is very much energized by anticipation of positive interactions and excitement. Freedom of choice is a must and you need to take care of yourself before you are ready to see…
Sex Life Makeover: Introduction
The love season is upon us and with roughly 63% of the population is not satisfied with their sex life, it is time for a makeover. Based on the scaffolding in Foley, Kope, and Sugrue’s 2012 book “Sex Matters for Women” , we will be reviewing the new mantra of sex therapy:…